Do not often leave children, the influence of psychological
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| Do not often leave children, the influence of psychological |
Every child has a different personality, parents sometimes difficult to understand the personality of children, To be able to understand the personality is not easy because personality is a complex problem. Personality itself is not only inherent in a person, but rather is the result of a long growth in a cultural environment. Here parents play an important role in shaping the child's psychological.
Every parent has its own activity, which activity should leave the kids at home.Sometimes we as parents do not realize the child's psychological, it would be what if often we leave, if we look carefully many children abandoned by parents in terms of employment or a sudden need. Here we emphasize the psychological impact if the child is often left out. Well, we must know what the psychological impact will be experienced by the child as long as we often leave the child, including:
1. Children feel neglected, kids always think "more concerned with my parents need, from on my needs"
2. Children will not be familiar with us. Many children are left with another person, a time when we are with child, the child will not get to know us more usually they are familiar with the person who was with him all the time.
3. Children will be closed. Many children are covered because they are often abandoned because they feel we are not a good place to vent, maybe with a flurry of us who rarely at home.
4. Parents will not know much about the child's psychological.
5. Sometimes the child is always crying.
Once we know the psychological impact of children, we should be able to have a solution how to overcome the psychological impact, as new parents realize it after knowing the properties owned by the child. Therefore, we must address the psychological impact in the following manner:
1. Give us time to children, although 1 hour
2. Give more attention
3. Asked the child, what they want as long as we are at home.
4. Discussion between children and parents.
5. Keep children can continue to light to us.
6. Give the words are soft, so the child does not feel left out.
7. Give meaning to the child when the child leaves.
Apparently, we often leave the child, will affect the child psychologically. So let's not often leave children with someone else.
Every parent has its own activity, which activity should leave the kids at home.Sometimes we as parents do not realize the child's psychological, it would be what if often we leave, if we look carefully many children abandoned by parents in terms of employment or a sudden need. Here we emphasize the psychological impact if the child is often left out. Well, we must know what the psychological impact will be experienced by the child as long as we often leave the child, including:
1. Children feel neglected, kids always think "more concerned with my parents need, from on my needs"
2. Children will not be familiar with us. Many children are left with another person, a time when we are with child, the child will not get to know us more usually they are familiar with the person who was with him all the time.
3. Children will be closed. Many children are covered because they are often abandoned because they feel we are not a good place to vent, maybe with a flurry of us who rarely at home.
4. Parents will not know much about the child's psychological.
5. Sometimes the child is always crying.
Once we know the psychological impact of children, we should be able to have a solution how to overcome the psychological impact, as new parents realize it after knowing the properties owned by the child. Therefore, we must address the psychological impact in the following manner:
1. Give us time to children, although 1 hour
2. Give more attention
3. Asked the child, what they want as long as we are at home.
4. Discussion between children and parents.
5. Keep children can continue to light to us.
6. Give the words are soft, so the child does not feel left out.
7. Give meaning to the child when the child leaves.
Apparently, we often leave the child, will affect the child psychologically. So let's not often leave children with someone else.